Both men and women may have preference for their sex partner. It is only natural to have general or vague preference for the opposite gender,
but having clear and specific preference indicates that you have problems.
Men should be able to perform sexually whenever their women want.
They should be able to have sex as much as women want. You may say that it's nonsense, but all men are born with the most powerful sex ability.
Men are born with the ability to comply with women in every aspect and protect women.
Men's xesmind makes their body and mind accord with women partners for everything.
Women's response is crucial for men in having sex. Men feel happy and proud of themselves
and they feel they have become men of higher value when women have more intense orgasm.
It may look like men have the desire for acknowledgement of their value on the surface.
In a sense it is true since sex ability is considered as the highest value of life for men that gives them confidence.
How ever, more fundamental is men's ability to comply with the woman partner so that she can have orgasm as much as she wants.
Then, men can be satisfied with his sexual function that makes the partner the happiest woman and the fact that he protects the partner.
Men with such powerful sex ability does not care about the partner's appearance at all.
They have the ability to satisfy their partner as much as she wants regardless of the woman's appearance.
Problems occur when men lose their sex ability they are born with.
It happens because men have formed the ideas on sexuality that go against the instinct of xesmind. As a result many men have sex not for their women but for their own sexual pleasure. They try to make women satisfied to achieve more pleasure for themselves.
Men-centered Sexuality has limitations by depending on men's ejaculation and sensory stimulation, which deprives men of true sex ability. Men originally have the ability to comply with women as much as they want but such things have become to only belong to mythology.
Women do not understand about how to activate sexuality in the right way, either, and they also have the idea of men'centered sexuality. Women become dependent on men for sexuality and men try to lead and mistake their pleasure for women's pleasure.
These men readily criticize women's appearance and become picky on choosing their partner. This is compared to confessing they don't have sex ability and they need specific external conditions to function sexually. A maestro would not blame materials for failure.
Please, reflect on your ideas on sexuality if you have strong preference for specific external conditions in having sex including women's appearance. Men's sexual pleasure is not achieved by external factors but by their own sex ability. You don't need to learn for train for any new thing, but you just need to restore your ability you are born with.
