When men are nice and sweet to women, women usually cannot distinguish whether men are making sexual expressions or making expressions of love. Women usually perceive them as attention and consolation. 

Also, men usually cannot distinguish whether they themselves are making sexual expressions or expressions of love. Most people think that feelings of love make them generate sexual desire and sexual desire also leads to feelings of love. 

However, love and sexual desire are clearly separate and different for men. 

When a man loves a woman, he does his best to protect the woman's body, mind, and sexuality. Men do not generate sexual desire toward women they love, and they hardly make sexual expressions to them even when they have sexual desire. 

Men's sexual desire is the manifestation of the desire to achieve the pleasure of sex. It is not based on men's love that leads to the protection of women.  Men usually do not perceive women they love as sexual objects. They may have sexual desire though since it can be activated and sensed by physical arousal. 

When a relationship starts based on sexual desire and then moves on to love, men lose sexual desire toward the woman. Men also do not have sexual desire toward women they are not interested in at all, and they do not perceive such women as sexual objects. 

Men will do their best to make women they love live happily without activating sexual desire. They vaguely feel that men's sexual desire destroys women's mimind and xesmind. Men do not have sexual desire toward women they love, but having no sexual desire does not necessarily mean that the man loves the woman. 

Sex Therapy for Men guides men to build the most powerful sex ability and the ability to protect women they love and enjoy sexual happiness with them.